NEVER GIVE YOUR SPOUSE YOUR OWN NEEDS
Just as we are different that’s how our needs differ also. One mistake we make in relationships or marriages is giving our partners what we need not necessarily what they need.
Let me explain further with my own experience. You see, whenever I am traveling; no matter the distance, calling me once to check on me is enough for me. At times it doesn’t matter if you call or not, I won’t be angry. But on the other hand, my husband is not like that. For him, it’s important I call him through the journey or send text messages at intervals to check on him. This act of mine would make him realize that his affairs and events is also important to me.
If I don’t do that, hmmm. He won’t be happy and it would be apology galore that day. So because I have come to understand how important it is to him, I make sure I don’t fail in that regard. I won’t say because it’s not important to me if someone calls or not, I would ignore doing it.
All I am trying to say is for relationships to work, we must understand what’s important to our partners and place it as priority. Two people won’t work well together if one party feels left out or unimportant. In other words, making your marriage and relationship work involves a daily conscious effort to get to know your significant other better.
There are times its tasking and other times it’s like a walk in a beautiful park; but the bottom line is amazing relationships are not thrown at us, we must work to have them as we trust in God to grant us the wisdom to know our partners daily even as we find strength to love them unconditionally.
So what’s one thing you want to share that makes you different from your partner. Please feel free to to use the comment section. 😘.
As always, I want to see you have a successful relationship and marriage. Do have a great day.
Yours in love,
Eleojo Jennifer Amuneni®